Cultural values seem familiar to everyone, but most people, including myself, can hardly clearly define their core values.
I personally refine it now, and share with you: record some behaviors every day, some behaviors are appreciated by myself; some behaviors I hate; when different from other people ’s opinions (even disputes), which people around me prefer , Which do not want to associate. After summarizing and refining, I slowly refined my values. At this time, the values are usually still vague and not firm. After refining your own values, you need to continue to cultivate and strengthen. If you persist in your own values when you pass the test of life and death, then the values become your beliefs.
So I think that values can be cultivated. The younger the age, the easier it is to form, and the smaller the values, the firmer the values.
As a child, it was a stage of learning a lot of knowledge and absorbing information. It was an empty cup mentality, and it was relatively easy to accept and form your own values. As I grow older, I start to have my own judgment and often question foreign information. Many people think that they are getting older, their brains are not easy to use, and their learning ability has declined. In fact, it ’s because your brain is too full. But there is indeed too much spam in society, which is indeed contradictory.
China is basically based on the family as a unit. In people's perception, the significance of the family is very large, which also explains why the real estate market in China is different from other countries. In every family, there are family rules and family styles, which play a very important role in the cultivation of children's values. With the process of urbanization in China, the inheritance of family rules and family styles has been destroyed to some extent. In any case, as a child, the education and influence of the parents have far-reaching significance for the life of the child. This should attract the attention of every family.
It is better to be late than not, we first understand these universal values for reference!